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I Am Not A Mbokodo Self-Care Journal

I Am Not A Mbokodo Self-Care Journal

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The I Am Not A Mbokodo Self-Care Journal is the perfect companion for wives seeking to prioritize their well-being. Filled with empowering prompts and thoughtful exercises, this journal helps you nurture your mind, body, and spirit amidst daily demands. Embrace self-care as a vital part of your journey, boost your confidence, and find balance in your life. Make this journal your daily ritual and experience the transformative power of intentional self-love for you and your marriage.

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I Am Not A Mbokodo

As a wife, I know what it feels like to pour everything into a marriage and still feel unseen. That’s why I wrote I Am Not a Mbokodo—for women like me, for women like you.

For too long, Black African women have been expected to carry the weight of marriage, sacrificing their dreams, identities, and happiness in the name of endurance. We have been taught that love means sacrifice, that a good wife must always give, even at the cost of herself. But marriage should not come at the expense of who you are.

This book is not about fighting against marriage but about finding yourself within it. It’s about balance—about being valued, respected, and cherished, not just as a wife, but as a woman.

You don’t have to carry the weight of everything. You don’t have to shrink yourself to be loved. I Am Not a Mbokodo is about reclaiming your voice, your confidence, and your happiness in a marriage that truly values you.

This book will help you set boundaries, rediscover your confidence, and build a life where you are loved without over-sacrificing.

Because you are not a rock—you deserve softness, you deserve love that nurtures and uplifts you. You are an amazing, worthy woman first. And you deserve to be loved as you are.

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For The Worthy Wife

This book is for the woman who feels like she’s carrying her marriage alone. The wife who has been told that endurance is the key to love—even when it drains her. The woman who longs to be cherished, seen, and valued—not just as a wife, but as a person.

If you have ever felt lost in your marriage, if you’ve sacrificed parts of yourself just to keep the peace, if you’ve wondered, Is this all there is?—this book is for you.

Inside I Am Not a Mbokodo, you will not only find deep insights but also practical, actionable steps to help you transform your marriage and your sense of self. You will learn how to:

❤️ Reclaim your confidence and self-worth in marriage.

❤️ Set boundaries without guilt and stand firm in them.

❤️ Stop over-sacrificing and start receiving the love and respect you deserve.

❤️ Navigate cultural and marital expectations without losing yourself.

❤️ Rediscover the woman you were before marriage—or find yourself again in a new, stronger way.

❤️ Use proven strategies to shift the dynamics in your marriage in a way that benefits you.

❤️ Build a marriage where you are cherished, respected, and valued—without begging for it.

This isn’t just theory—it’s a step-by-step guide to help you make real changes in your life.

Marriage should never come at the cost of who you are. I Am Not a Mbokodo will show you how to take back your power, create balance, and find fulfillment in both love and life.

What Worthy Wives Are Saying...

  • Nomsa M. (★★★★★)

    “This book opened my eyes to everything I had been tolerating in my marriage. For the first time, I set boundaries without guilt, and my husband actually started respecting them. I feel like me again—strong, confident, and valued.”

  • Aisha O.(★★★★☆)

    “I thought being a ‘good wife’ meant always putting my husband first, even at my own expense. I Am Not a Mbokodo: The Wife Who Found Herself changed my perspective completely. Now, I love myself just as much as I love my marriage, and the shift has been incredible.”

  • Thandi K. (★★★★★)

    “Every chapter felt like a conversation with a sister who truly understands. The practical steps helped me rebuild my confidence, and for the first time in years, I feel seen in my marriage. This book is a game changer!”